May 27, 2006

Expect the Unexpected...

I think about changes, which happens all around me every day, Some things change because I decide to make them different. I change clothes, I change addresses, I change the oil in my car, or I change my mind about the music I like. Those are changes that I — or someone I trust — put in motion......

I go back to the old saying, "Whatever can go wrong, will go wrong" to explain stuff that happens unexpectedly. I call that Murphy's Law. I see good in all kinds of unexpected things — like people I don't know who come out to help me.

The way I react to unexpected events has a lot to do with learning to expect some surprises along the way . . . and to know that life is supposed to be exciting, interesting, and unpredictable all at once.

All together it's a Joy in Life to face unexpected events.... I stick to my sutra "Come what may! I give my best and I succeed getting the best in my life"

May 26, 2006

Waqt Tho Lagta Hai...

Thought-flow in my mind...
It takes plenty of time to form solid relationships, be they personal or business relations. If people took the time to get to know each other well, that rate would most likely be dramatically lowered. This goes for the business world, too.
It takes time for the human brain to understand someone new in life and to act on decisions. Far too often, many of us are forced to rush – not given (or taking) enough time to digest our thoughts and feelings.Thoughts Take Time. It’s rather self – explanatory.Everything takes time.
At this moment..I remember a beautiful gazal by JS. Here it goes....
HMmmmmm....Sabke liye WAQT lagta hai......

Pyar ka pehla khat likhne mei waqt to lagta hai
Naye parindo ko udne mein waqt to lagta hai...

Jism ki baat nahi thi un ki, dil tak jana tha,
Lambi duri tai karne me, waqt to lagta hai..

Gaanth agar lag jaye to phir, rishte ye dori,
Lakh kare koshish khulne me, waqt to lagta hai..

Hamne ilaaz jokhme dil ko, dhar liya lekin,
Gahre zakhmo ko bharne me, waqt to lagta hai...

Jagjit Singh - The King of Gazals!!

May 24, 2006

No Love Here...

Something disturbs me, something been disturbing me, deep inside this thing is unsettling. Often, in my life, I've discovered people of all walks and faith. They seem strong, able, independent, living a full life. Knowing sorrow and confronting it with ease, brushing aside fear, living a world worth of a king. They have families, they are wanderers, ambitious, lovers and fighters. They pose a life infront of me where nothing seems wrong. They're unbreakable.

Often again, I confront them, to learn or to share a few things lying around, hoping that they would have picked it before and learned it. I wanted to learn their wisdom, because simply I cant touch their serenity. The strange thing is that, they're very confident, they don't do anything wrong, they help because they want to, they like people, they love to share. They have directions in their lives that I cant match. They're secure, they did more that I ever did in my lifetime. These people, you would have met, the warm and happy faces that light up the day, the legends on the side of the road when you feel like giving up. They lead us to the future that's inevitable.

What to discover of this life, if it fulfilled to fill every niche that it fits us together where separation is not in sight. What I found is that behind this faces, in between their words, they walk and their breath, there is insecurity. No, more that that, they are not humans. They are something different. Behind those sane eyes, I saw lights that never was, they have hollow souls. These people, the touched me for years, they left me the moment they met me, but I never knew. But now, I discover, one by one, each one of them have fears, have greed and unfulfilled lust in them to own something and destroy themselves. Why are they so lost, where are they heading. You can see them like this ever, you have to be the one who discovers this identity hidden in the wind swept hills of their heart and emotions.

If you approach them, be it lovers or children, parents, God, they have something hidden in them, that will reveal ever so swiftly in seconds, and will disappear forever afterward. It wont last long enough for you to discern their true self, but if you are in the lookout for such a mistake in a perfect person, then you will learn something that will scar your soul forever. One scar too many, in this life so early, never did I want to see all this. Of people you trust, who carried your life this long, who guided you, they're actually dead lost. They found ways in others who before them did the same thing, lived a pretenders life, then and now not seen by any of us, but they are evil. They are the ones who will kill you for eternity, through the ages, their colors will evolve into every corner of existence, and they will permeate every part of your soul, eating you away into oblivion.

Is it strange now, that I see this people, they are your soul mates, my friends, your brothers, my sisters, they live their lives walking on a thin line to nowhere, and yet they can stand strong in front of you owning the world. Finally it will look like you are the right one, the one who knew it all and yet you suffer the most. Where are this people headed, who are they to touch your lives. Have you ever met them, you will now I guess, no you cant see them, because they're invisible.

There are good people among them, they are helpless but they are brave and they never turn you down. They guide everyone towards the light, and when you can see, they return to the dark. Why do I love the night if not because I want to be this dark knight and ushers in an urban world where there is no love no salvation. They are god's too you see, the Gods that you never though would be able to touch and guide you, because they talk so they are no God you pray too. What are faith if not the believe you have on them, the trust you have on your mother, the same faith you show towards the ones you love, but will they answer you're calling in the other times when you meet them.

There is no love here.

May 13, 2006

Mother's Day

"A Mother holds her children's hands for awhile; their hearts forever."
Happy Mother's Day

May 6, 2006

Memory..

I read something simple and interesting about memory just now.... thought to scrap a lil here...

Memory is the ability of the brain to store, retain, and subsequently recall information.

The ways of classifying memories, based on duration, nature and retrieval of information:

Encoding (processing and combining of received information)
Storage (creation of a permanent record of the encoded information)
Retrieval/Recall (calling back the stored information in response to some cue for use in some process or activity)

JUST AMAZING!!!

May 5, 2006

Chupke Chupke....

After a long while, today I remember eternal composition 'Chupke Chupke Raat Din Aansoon Bahana Yaad Hai' by Ghulam Ali for **Nikaah**

Lovely Lyrics!!!!

Oh oh oh, aah aah, oh oh oh, oh ho ho
Chupke chupke raat din aansu bahaana yaad hai
Humko ab tak aashiqui ka voh zamaana yaad hai
Chupke chupke raat din aansu bahaana yaad hai
Khench le na voh mera parde ka kona daffatan
Aur dupatte se tera voh munh chhupaana yaad hai
Humko ab tak aashiqui ka voh zamaana yaad hai
Chupke chupke raat din aansu bahaana yaad hai
Do paher ki dhoop mein mere bulaane ke liye
Voh tera kothe pe nange paaon aana yaad hai
Humko ab tak aashiqui ka voh zamaana yaad hai
Chupke chupke raat din aansu bahaana yaad hai
Hm mm mm hm, aah aah, mm mm mm mm, mm mm mm hm mm


May 3, 2006

A very small thought on goals..

Hi buddies!

I liked this thought! so sharing with you all..

Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success

I've Learnt...


I've learnt
.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
.... That when you're in love, it shows.
.... That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
.... That being kind is more important than being right.
.... That you should never say "no" to a gift from a child.
.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
.... That money doesn't buy class.
.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
.... That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?
.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.
.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
.... That there's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.
.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
.... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
.... That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
.... That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

A Day's Graving Shocks!

1) Heard from Rathna, early in the morning her CAB met with a reckless accident...was kinda worried if she was hurt in any way, but by god's grace..she is all okay.. She said it's just a NEW LEASE to LIFE...hmmm

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2) Tej returned back from her night shift..there was another bad news lined up for me... Raghu! a short,lean, cute newly wed boy is no more with us... he lost his life for saving a cow, which was crossing the road while he was driving his bike.. Most astonishing part is he left us exactly after 3 months of his wedding! Feb 2nd- May 2nd... Having his helmet in his left hand...he died of a severe head injury..A GAME OF FATE?..I strongly felt that,he must have been taken to NIMHANS very immly than the small hospital....so tat better neural diagnosis had been carried out.... unfortunately young couple, away from all relatives...living in bangalore had no one here to take the best of decisions...

Its aweful to hear that Prasanna who is getting married today and a lil Sharu took care of whole lot of things at hospital...medicines, all formalities, informing the known people....huh! Tej was in great state of shock seeing him falling impassive with severly bleeded head on the bed at hospital..

A cute lil 22 yrs old gal is left a widow! she is being criticised of being inauspicious tat her in-laws losing their son! I pray to god to give her the best in her store to endure.. May Raghu's SOUL REST IN PEACE...

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3) After a nap.... I thought of watching TV in the evening... I turned on the TV and there popped up a news that Pramod Mahajan passed away... Tho' I hate politicians, atleast on humanitarian basis i wished him to recover soon... but....

This is Alll A MISERABLE DAY FOR ME :(

May 1, 2006

Promise yourself...

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing candisturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness, and prosperity toevery person you meet.

To make all your friends feel like there issomething in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make youroptimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best,and expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of othersas you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on thegreater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and giveevery living person you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourselfthat you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, and toostrong for fear, and to happy to permit thepresence of trouble.